Upcoming
Experiences
THE NIGHT DOESN'T END AT BONDAGE BALL...
Join us at Incognito SD for an introductory k!nk afterparty at our new play space, located just 40 minutes north of downtown SD in a discreet private neighborhood setting.
We welcome newcomers taking their first steps into the community as well as experienced knksters looking for a more intimate atmosphere, this gathering offers a luxurious space to learn, explore, and practice the energy of knk beyond the crowded nightclub environment.
Night of Saturday June 27th, 2026
(Early morning Sunday June 28)
1:00 AM – 5:00 AM
A relaxed, elegant, and intentionally curated experience where conversation, connection, and community take center stage.
“Tasters” of various knk experiences by vetted individuals will happen throughout the party, don’t be shy to ask for (negotiate) an experience you are interested in!
DJ Xris SMack will help us ensure the party continues!
Advance Tickets Required – $20
BYOB
Food available for purchase.
Fet!sh / Knk attire encouraged, you do not need to attend Bondage Ball to purchase an afterparty ticket.
21+ Adults Only • Discreet • All Experience Levels Welcome
Please Note:
This is a knk-focused afterparty. Not a s3xual play party.
Tickets are non-refundable and must be purchased in advance.
Private location details will be shared with ticket holders the week of event sent to the email you provide at checkout
THE NIGHT DOESN'T END AT BONDAGE BALL...
Join us at Incognito SD for an introductory k!nk afterparty at our new play space, located just 40 minutes north of downtown SD in a discreet private neighborhood setting.
We welcome newcomers taking their first steps into the community as well as experienced knksters looking for a more intimate atmosphere, this gathering offers a luxurious space to learn, explore, and practice the energy of knk beyond the crowded nightclub environment.
Night of Saturday June 27th, 2026
(Early morning Sunday June 28)
1:00 AM – 5:00 AM
A relaxed, elegant, and intentionally curated experience where conversation, connection, and community take center stage.
“Tasters” of various knk experiences by vetted individuals will happen throughout the party, don’t be shy to ask for (negotiate) an experience you are interested in!
DJ Xris SMack will help us ensure the party continues!
Advance Tickets Required – $20
BYOB
Food available for purchase.
Fet!sh / Knk attire encouraged, you do not need to attend Bondage Ball to purchase an afterparty ticket.
21+ Adults Only • Discreet • All Experience Levels Welcome
Please Note:
This is a knk-focused afterparty. Not a s3xual play party.
Tickets are non-refundable and must be purchased in advance.
Private location details will be shared with ticket holders the week of event sent to the email you provide at checkout
Your Questions, Answered
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Incognito is located in a private neighborhood. Once you purchase a ticket to an event or book a rental option, the address will be provided to you via emai.
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We are not open to the public and therefore do not maintain set hours of operation. Emails are responded to within 24 hours.
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Our rental booking features are on the horizon! Sign up for our email list to be the first to receive updates and information.
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Our Vetting and Membership process is underway and will soon be live…Check our home page after June 5th for more details!
Get in Touch
Want to host your own event at our space? Get in touch!